If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, is it endearing or offensive?

The person keeps eye contact when they are listening to or asking about others, but when they decide to talk or open up about themselves, they blush and look downwards a lot.





So, is that offensive, or endearing?If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, is it endearing or offensive?
In most instances like these, the person is embarrassed about themselves, lack self-esteem and feel that revealing themselves will further detach them from others, or may simply be shy. More often it is one of the former two.





Imagine being in such a situation where you were embarrassed or had the low self-esteem. WOuldn't it feel a little threatening to look at someone in the eye and reveal to them that embarrassing or ';filled with low self-esteem'; information? And waiting to hear from them what they think about you? Faces can be revealing, and coupled with information, are even more so. Hiding the face eliminates this dilemma. This is what the person you speak of is likely experiencing.





Being shy, however, is still possible. If shy, they are likely hiding their face to escape the interpersonal depth of the conversation and make it more chat-style. Talking in a chat-style can be hard to do with a personal topic for some, so hiding the face makes it impersonal.





Evaluate the circumstances and information more and you'll be able to better determine which of these it is.If someone blushes and lacks eye contact when they open up about themselves, is it endearing or offensive?
it depends on the way they are i think it's endearing and cute
It is not offensive, nor may be endearing....just simply the fact, that some folk do not find it easy to open up and talk about themselves.....others may be very visual....and need to look down to taslk about something that is not visual, so as they can think what it is they want to say.
it means they are having meth withdrawls